Highway of Heroes Tribute at Crandall Ridge
I have always been passionate about the magnificence and beauty of nature. I love trees. I also have a strong military background. My maternal grandfather and some of my uncles served in the first and second world wars, the father of a close friend served in Korea, and my brothers were reservists involved in peacekeeping missions. My oldest brother served in the regular forces. My son-in-law is in the Navy and based out of Victoria B.C. My son served sixteen non-consecutive months in Afghanistan. Close friends of my children have made the ultimate sacrifice.
Our property borders the 401, a stretch which is known as the Highway of Heroes. I have stood at the edge as the motorcades went by with tears in my eyes and a deep ache in my heart – wishing I could do more; more for the people in conflict, more for the loved ones lost and more for those who had to say good-bye.
I am not sure how I first heard about the Highway of Heroes Tree Tribute. It may have been word of mouth or a pamphlet tucked in the mailbox. I immediately recognized a valuable opportunity, a living tribute, a statement to remember, a way to bring knowledge of the cost of freedom to our land, and our lives. I feel both grateful and blessed to have this opportunity.
We have planted 11,250 trees through the HoHTC and Forests Ontario program; a mix of white pine, red pine, oak, spruce, cedar, and European larch on our 31 acres of property on the north edge of the 401. These trees have already become a sanctuary. They are a place where we walk the dogs, breathe in the fresh air, connect with our soul and feel one with the universe. They are a haven for birds and wildlife. They add beauty to the community. They are a place for relaxation, meditation, and contemplation. My son and daughters who in their own way have felt the effects of the military lifestyle, have walked among the saplings and found peace and personal comfort.
My friend Alison (who lost her son Lee) and I, did a smudging ceremony among the trees this Spring in the company of butterflies and a calming breeze. Meaningful beyond words.
As the trees grow, so will this tribute grow to be a long-lasting reminder of the cost of freedom, the agony of war. They will add interest and beauty to those passing by and a place for the wildlife nestled among them.
Already I have learned so much about trees, how to help them grow, the many varieties, the endless environmental benefits, and their connection with the universe and beyond. I have connected with people I wouldn’t otherwise know and have gotten to know others much more deeply. With the living tribute, as the trees grow, they will inspire discussion and increase awareness of war and peace. We will know that sacrifice was not in vain. We will remember them.